If love is giving without expectations and being in business means I charge for my time. How can I be love with all things if they don’t pay me?

I can be love is a feeling. Charging for my time is how the universe flows. There must always be a fair exchange. What goes in, must come out.

An expectation is an intellectual concept of debt. If I charge for my time the transaction is clean and clear. There is a contract – an agreement. Everyone understands the boundaries. Everyone has free will.

If I give more than my 50% and try to save someone, I am hurting that person: not loving them. I am interfering with their free will. Even though I may think I know better – I am not walking in their shoes. 

If I am trying to save someone – I have not clarified my business. I am assuming I know something that I don’t know. I am assuiming I know what someone needs for their spiritual growth. And that is not my business. I live and let live. Esp. I live my life for me.