Most people’s troubles come from not keeping their awareness of the big picture of who they really are and their purpose for being on planet earth at this time.
Instead they stay in little boxes of their own man-made rules and regulations. And thus, have little pictures.
When you cannot focus on the big picture, it is because you have not grasped why you are here on planet earth.
Take some time and meditate on why you are here.
Are you here to please anyone?
Are you here to be loyal to someone, something or some organization?
Are you here to suffer?
Are you here to amass a fortune
Are you here to eat, drink and party as much as you can?
Are you here to feed and support a family?
None of these things are your prime reason for being here, even though there is nothing wrong with any of them.
You are free to do whatever you want, for whatever reason you can think of.
You are not free, however, of the consequences of your actions.
The universe is fair in all it’s dealings.
Water always seeks its own level.
You are free to do whatever you want as long as you do not hurt anyone.
You are not free to abuse or misuse people.
You are here to learn and grow spiritually.
This does not mean you are to be a monk or a mendicant.
It means, it would be in your best interest to take a few moments each day to clarify what you are learning; how you are growing and how you could spend tomorrow.
A simple regrouping each night would change your life from being a muggle to being a spiritual wayshower.